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The Five Biggest Mistakes That Are Keeping You Single

The Five Biggest Mistakes That Are Keeping You Single

Everyone you know seems to be getting paired off. They spend their time gazing lovingly into one another’s eyes as Cupid, fluttering somewhere overhead, plays a harp. But not you. You’re still single. It was fun for a while, the freedom, but not anymore. What mistakes are you making that are keeping you single?

Thankfully, you’ve come to South Florida Introductions We are experts on helping you find real, lasting love. Our team has helped pair more than 1,000 happy marriages. Keep reading to find out the five biggest mistakes that are keeping you single.

You’re Trying Too Hard

Trying too hard can manifest itself in lots of different ways. A good way to tell if you’re trying too hard is to take stock of your anxiety levels on your first dates. People who are nervous about the success of a relationship tend to act in overeager ways, which can put a lot of unintentional pressure on your counterpart and cause them to take a step back.

Your Playing (Too) Hard To Get

One of the biggest mistakes that can keep you single is pretending to be busy when asked out. Always trying to be the cool guy or girl is common. Pretend not to care when you really do is common. Still, playing hard to get makes it hard to find Mr. or Ms. Right. In fact, it’s likely to attract just the sort of person who will make you unhappy: someone who doesn’t feel comfortable being close. You can make the perfect first impression by being authentic. We’re not suggesting that you should lower your standards. We’re simply saying that you should be careful to make sure that you’re not turning dating into a game. Games can sometimes attract the worst sorts of players.
Playing hard To get

You Fall for Gender Stereotypes

Men fear commitment? Women are needy? Are men from Venus and women from Mars? Well, not necessarily. This is another big mistake that is keeping you single. When it comes to relationships, people fall into one of three basic categories. So-called secure or confident people are warm and loving and feel comfortable with intimacy. People who are more anxious seek closeness but worry their love won’t be reciprocated. Avoidant people, on the other hand shun intimacy, valuing independence above all.
You fall for gender stereotypes

You Care More About Having A “One” Than Finding The One

If you’ve romanticized the idea of having that special someone to the degree that you lose sight of what a quality relationship looks like, this could be a mistake that is keeping you single. Settling for anyone that is interested in you doesn’t make for a lasting relationship. Make a list of your non-negotiables when it comes to a partner, and adhere to it.

You’re Wounded/Damaged From A Past Relationship

Self-preservation can be sneaky because, sometimes, you don’t even realize you’re doing it. If you’ve gotten out of a rocky relationship and find that you’re afraid you’ll get hurt again or repeat past mistakes, you may be sabotaging your own dating efforts. You may be chasing unavailable people or going after someone you know you’re not compatible with. These is a major mistake that can keep you single. It’s also a dating pitfall to avoid. Being ready for a relationship after a bad break up can take a while, and if you find you’re not quite ready, that’s totally fine, regardless of pressures that friends or family may be putting on you. Work on taking care of yourself!
Wounded from past relationship

And there you have the five biggest mistakes that are keeping you single. If you’re ready to change that, to find a partner in all senses of the word, then give us a call today at 561-393-6666.

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Bill & Debbie

Bill joined because he wanted to meet a quality professional mate. Debbie joined wanting to find someone to share her life with. They both found exactly what they were looking for!
Bill was a member for almost a year and a half when they met and Debbie only a few months. He selected her and they started out as friends, but decided to make a commitment to one another. That was a wonderful life changing decision and the couple became engaged and married. The happy couple spent their honeymoon in Vail, Colorado.
Both members said they would tell anyone that is skeptical about joining “that is was definitely worth every penny that we paid to finally find someone!”

Amy & David

Amy: My daughter Leah actually submitted my information and I decided to join after talking to Sheryel at South Florida Introductions. The first couple of men were nice, but I was picky! Things only got serious when I went on a date with David, who I now consider my “Soul Mate.” We had so much to talk about, it was insane!

David: When they showed me Amy’s photos and I read her profile, I was excited. On our first date there was never an uncomfortable moment. When she left, I knew this could be the one. We went on many more dates; and it wasn’t long before she told me she didn’t want to spend a day without me. I felt the same way. We are now happily married and still in love.

Cindy & Bruce

Cindy became a member first. She had been widowed twice and had no intention of marrying again, but wanted a special person in her life. She wanted a change and was looking for a partner for dining, dancing, and travel.

Bruce had heard of us through a friend, and told me in our initial conversation that I would never have a match for him, because his story was too unique. He had two Doctoral Degrees and was the President of a very large national organization, but his personality was more rugged and adventurous. Somehow, I instantly knew even on the phone, these two would be a match. When I told Bruce how I felt, he cancelled his vacation to meet with me and find out more about Cindy.

Six months later I attended their beautiful wedding on Cindy’s ranch. I remain friends with them to this day, and they are just one of the many couples I have brought together.

Lee & Beth

Paula and Nina at South Florida Introductions told me that I have to date Beth, because they really get to know their members and said we had so much in common. I called Beth and we spent over an hour on the phone. They were so right! Our first date was at her favorite restaurant and we stayed for hours. We went out for many months, and I proposed at that very same restaurant. Thank you South Florida Introductions for making me the happiest man on earth!

Shoshana & Jed

Before using South Florida Introductions – I tried it all – dating co-workers, bars, friends setting me up, and online dating. What I loved about South Florida Introductions was how they facilitated everything. They took all the awkwardness out of the dating process, so we could meet in a relaxed environment.
We had a BLAST from the first night. Neither of us wanted the night to end! We couldn’t wait to see each other again!
All is well. Jed is my sweetheart and he says I’m his “angel.” I believe we can do ANYTHING together! We’re looking forward to an African Safari in the next year or so.

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